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Negative Thinking Balances Your Decision

By Noel Nicolas Villarosa

Worrying is different from thinking. Worrying dwells on bad thoughts created from one conceptual situation, while thinking is processing useful judgment to avoid the unfavorable situation. Many people keep on telling to avoid negative thinker because they attract negative vibes. I am not disparaging the good side of positive attitude and optimism, what I want to emphasize is to try looking at the other views of a person labeled as a negative thinker. In the law of attraction, we are manipulating our mind to create things eventually so it depends on a person's mind on what he thinks to materialize them into reality, but the law of attraction is realizable if you take action to put all things the way you want it to be. You could serve as a driving force to others by sending out your opinion, feeling, and attracting back more of what you have planned. Your action will either create a good or bad outcome from your decisions.

With all due respect to people trying to avoid negative thinker, I am more challenged by someone saying a contrary outcome, I understand what they are dealing with, and they are just being a defensive pessimist. Individuals behaving in defensive pessimism are strategically preparing themselves how to handle uneasiness or discomfort to an uncertain outcome. There have been many "ifs" and "buts" on their minds to make a clear decision just like when making a computer program flowchart, they stop and logically process what is inside the decision box that there is certain action if you decide to go here and there. When they are in defensive thinking, low expectations would arise in a way they plan of what action to do to avoid the uncertain events. In doing this, is helping them to prevent anxiety overcomes their feelings.

Negative people are well aware of the possible problem and thinking ahead would lead them for possible actions to avoid worst-case scenarios.

There are two kinds of negative thinker:

• A negative thinker with the same trait as with positive thinker. These people are thinking of imaginary events but the traits they both apply are doing nothing and just wait until the situation comes, they do not have a systematic plan to solve or mitigate the unpleasant situation.
• A negative thinker with a solution to apply. This kind of person is thinking ahead what might be the problem and from imaginary thoughts, he will plan activities to solve or alleviate the problem.

Here is where things get fascinating about a negative thinker: A defensive pessimist heard the news that he must register his job position in an authorized committee to renew his residential identity card in a foreign country. His thought flooded with many "ifs" even though not sure if his job position is included among the professions to be registered, in no time he immediately applied for a Special Power of Attorney for a family member and sent this to his home country to get all his credentials as requirements to be submitted to the committee. When the time comes to renew his residential identity. He had now on his hands all the supporting documents and timely submitted this to the committee; the hassle of chasing time to prepare all the documents are being replaced by convenience.

In one occasion, he read news about the possible nationalization scheme as a new policy. All expatriates will be replaced by its local citizens, even though not sure that his job position is included among the list of professions to be replaced, he created plans on how to abate his worries about filling the gaps of years will be lost in his retirement years. He started to save money every payday and sent it back home to deposit in the bank or investing it in government bonds. In just a few years, his money earned interest and as expected the nationalization scheme came, without any hesitation, he accepted his fate and went home with his family with enough savings to sustain a family business.

Negative thinkers deal with realism and rationalism because they behave toward the actual situation, gathering information and taking conscious action. While being positive thinker dwells on being complacent with the imaginary concept until it is too late to suppress the bad outcome.

When events are not yet sure to happen, be specific on your goals and try to get in touch with reality because it will probably fall somewhere in between. Beyond positive and negative retrospect, planning is best to get you through countless roadblocks. If someone tells you to set your mind positively, acknowledge and warn them that negative thinker is another friend reminding you to anticipate possible outcomes before the situation controls you.

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Morning of My Life (Bee Gees Song)

By Noel Nicolas Villarosa

I was not yet born when Bee Gees were introduced to the music world and to keep track of their popularity. On my teenage years, I was able to listen to their music on a transistor radio and during the intercession of social media like YouTube that I was able to appreciate more videos of Bee Gees. There are many music genres that people enjoyed based on their preferences like pop, rock, jazz and more. Baseless if we don't listen to the music and to prove what made them famous.

The Bee Gee's sound can easily be identified as loud and lively performed by the famous three brothers' vocal harmonies; with Barry Gibb's falsetto voice became the band's brand. The Bee Gees songs are considered oldies but goodies in music circulation. The Bee Gees sound would always be accompanied by a vibrato at the end of a phrase and a controlling percussion effects and string overdubs lead one in appreciating the beat. The fans love it so much that keeps most of their songs more interesting. Their songs like "How Can You Mend A Broken Heart," "I Started A Joke," "Massachusetts," "How Deep Is Your Love," "Night Fever," "To Love Somebody," "You Should Be Dancing," "Too Much Heaven," "Jive Talkin," "Spicks and Specks," "Run To Me," "Tragedy," "Words," and "Staying Alive" are only a few of the classics in pop music golden age.

The 1970s was a proliferation of unique sounds from the disco theme of Bee Gees. Their music has become more engaging as time goes by. The music resonates with deep meanings like sharing life experiences, love, friendship, poetry, and cultural elements. Did you ever ask yourself why is their sound so mesmerizing, so simple and yet effectively unparalleled?

The first time I heard the song "Morning of My Life," (also known as "In the Morning") its melody and lyrics are captivating that unknowingly you will be caught daydreaming no matter what time it is. It will bring you to the time where you are fully aware of your feelings and that you want to keep going back to that time and lingers it all the way. The song is enchanting that will cradle you to the desired timetable of your life. The simple thought created in this song is so gratifying that will pronounce sweet smile on one's face. Discover by listening to its melody and seize the substance within the words.

The first stanza goes like this: "In the morning when the moon is at its rest," "You will find me at the time I love the best," "Watching rainbows play on sunlight," "Pools of water iced from cold night," "In the morning," "It is the morning of my life." The message here is for someone thoughtfully pondering for the beginning of time that is naïve and a pristine love.

The second stanza goes like this: "In the daytime, I will meet you as before," "You will find me waiting by the ocean floor," "Building castles in the shifting sands," "In a world that no one understands," "In the morning, it is the morning of my life." In here, my exegesis of the message is life transformation of going out from comfort zone and goes beyond their capability where success and failure may come that only himself could understand.

The third stanza details this: "In the morning of my life," "The minutes take so long to drift away," "Please be patient with your life," "It's only morning and you're still to live your day." What I realized with this stanza is the moment that is hard to let go but the reality is that it takes time to accept what is needed to leave in the past and live another day.

The last stanza mentions this: "In the evening, I will fly you to the moon," "To the top right-hand corner of the ceiling in my room," "Where we'll stay until the sun shines," "Another day to swing on clothesline, may I be yawning, it is the morning of my life." From my understanding the message probably would like to express in the twilight years of their lives, spending together at the attic where writing in lights kept, hoping waking up for another daybreak in reminiscing the beauty of life.

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